Dilemma

I have a friend who came to me and ask me what I think about a certain situation. He is married. He and his wife have had their shares of ups and downs but currently things are cool. He mentioned that there is this woman at his place of employment who he has helped train. This woman is attractive and knows that he has a wife, but keeps giving him "singals". He is actually considering having relations with this woman. He mentioned that he has been with his wife so long know that he doesn't know if he loves her or if he is in love with her. They have children together. I mentioned first, he needs to find out whether or not he is in love or just loves his wife. It is not fair to her to just string her along if he is not in love with her. I also mentioned that he can be subconsciously (or consciously) trying to sabotage this marriage because the of the perceived "greener grass on the other side of the fence". I hope if he chooses to move forward with the woman from his place of work, he makes a decision on his marriage first. Marriage should be sacred.

Believe me, I don't think when you get married you loose your eyes, but I do think you agree to a certain standard.