Coming to realization

This is one of my boys...my cousin Alan. He was the best man and I was a groomsmen at his brother's wedding. Although we had a great time, I slowly came to the realization during the event that when you or your boy gets married, things change forever. Not necessarily for better or worse, but change. One can gain a lot be getting married like tax breaks, cheaper insurance, spltting living expenses...just kidding :). But seriously, marriage offers a lot, but hanging with your boys without a care in the world to the wee hours of the morning without worrying about what is going to happen when you get home offers a lot also.